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I'm an accomplished, adventurous, mature but fit-and-"well-preserved" (LOL) New Orleans man with a younger black lover who lives in Barbados in the Caribbean. I am looking to build a bond with an intelligent, good-hearted younger black gay or bi man here in New Orleans (or even a straight man, if one should be interested) who will understand both what I have to offer a buddy and the limitations of also being involved with a person who falls into the category of "distant lover." I am open to friendship, or to intimacy, or (best of all) to both. I'm not looking for quick, meaningless sex, and I am a very loyal and supportive friend. I have been a major-newspaper film critic, a teacher in the Caribbean and New Orlenas, and I have a gallery showing West Indian paintings; I'm also a playwright currently trying to get some of my works staged, and a guy who loves to travel whenever possible. I can talk about more personal particulars if you ask, or if you'd care to chat. Hope there's a cool dude out there who will respond to this posting. Thanks for reading it!

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
Height5' 10" (178 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions


Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsBird
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Job TitleGallery Owner

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies
Favorite movies typesDrama, Documentary, Thriller, Adult
Music typesJazz, Soul, Reggae
Reading selectionAuto-biography, Biography, Fiction, I'm an author
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Movies, Photography, Theater, Travel, Volunteering


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asFriendly


Political viewsLiberal

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness